Sunday, January 10, 2010

on why "I would go gay for her" as a compliment bothers me

It is because the highest compliment you can pay a woman is to proclaim that you find her fuckable.

Always and forever and as simple as that.

If you admire a woman and like her, if you find her witty and attractive, if you like the way she thinks, well obviously, you want to fuck her. Because if you were a straight man, that’s where that would lead. But if you’re someone who isn’t sexually attracted to women, you might think you are feeling that too, you might even feel that you are insulting that woman if you don’t want to sleep with her (dishing out the ultimate insult by calling her unfuckable). (via Bitchy Jones)

Of course, I'm not saying that sexuality isn't a complex matter. It's just that the casual off-handedness of these comments irks me.

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